Destined for Destiny

“When you really desire something with your heart and soul, the entire Universe conspires in helping you to achieve it.” Paulo Coelho (The Alchemist) What a lovely quote, I said. My friend said “it’s all shit”. I said “hey, it’s from my favourite book yaar, it is so very fascinating” she had this indifferent look on her face. Not agreeing, then came closer, again reading it she said “No I don’t believe such things.” And I thought does it really don’t have any meaning. Back to my inner world of thoughts, yeah I can really relate to it….whatever she said. How many times we achieved or got whatever we wanted. Okay when we desired something and got it, lets count…well very few chances that to very itsy-bitsy small desires, wanting something badly and never getting is the usual. Left alone, Universe conspiring in achieving that. You must be thinking “What has whole Universe got to do with me??” and if it’s only about YOU, then what?? Whenever we desire something, the factors – people around us, circumstances, situation and other things, yeah CONSPIRES for Not getting it fulfilled. We all must have felt it. I too have. So, is that quote totally absurd, meaningless. No its certainly not!!! In my opinion, when we desire something with our HEART and SOUL, then its no way we don’t get it. And the Universe too plays it’s role in it. And the Universe here is not for the planets, galaxy and satellites. But it’s the complete whole world around us, both physical and spiritual world. And the conspiracy starts with making sure if we REALLY desire the thing truly. So, checking begins( Hey, isn’t sounding like we are talking of some kind of product, but not for uncovering errors but for an autopsy of living mind). Testing if we deserve what we desire of, the circumstances test us if we really can do anything (in a righteous and positive way) for that. That’s when you feel that you are in a ditch, nothing falling in place. But then the phase is full of difficulties and through Hardship and Perseverance finally you get over it. And then all of a sudden, everything seems so much right, brightness around you. That’s when you pass the test. But it’s not like that. The testing phase is a superlative degree and very few can go at par with it but those are the people who follow their destiny and achieve it. So, it’s not a meaningless quote after all provided if we understand it. In my opinion it’s the essence of Life. If You Can Dream, It’s Possible If You Can’t It Can Never Be.

Invoke Your Thoughts

Well, sometime back I was thinking hard whether to jot down my thoughts on paper (rather on net) or not , finally I am writing coz I have to. This is about one of the serious prejudices people have about a person, you must be guessing hard, but it’s quite easy to guess…BEING LOOSE CHARACTER. What does this really mean?? Generally it has a negative commotion around it, isn’t it? We say “Good Lord, that person is Loose Character…”and the next few lines goes like this “Oh! He/she might be having affairs, going around with someone and…blah blah.

Every time I hear something like this a thought comes in my mind, does having a love interest in your life implies that, the person is Loose Character. Well, what I really think is, having a love interest in your life, is like being honest to yourself…being honest to your feelings and emotions. Feeling attracted to someone is all Science, our dearest Biology and Chemistry plays a vital role and all thanks to hormones in our body. See it’s as simple as that .If you give it a thought, you will see it’s a very natural phenomenon.

But I feel sorry for some people who are bound by what they are taught. They don’t even want to understand the simple fact that character is something else (my dear friends its my opinion). What I feel and think (really I can think!!) that Character is like having conscience, knowing what is good and bad. If the person feels bad after doing something bad (hey every person commit mistakes), then that is ‘having’ Character. Exploiting someone, making someone’s life hell is Loose Character. Facing difficulties with courage is ‘having’ Character. Blaming others is Loose Character and being difficult for others is Loose Character. These are few of the things, which I think should be taken into consideration before deciding about someone’s Character. People should take care of other’s feelings which can be hurt in between…but after all this is my way of thinking, my persona.

Well, concluding this I would like to make it clear that this is what I Think (guys guys really I can think!!), this is my personal opinion. So please avoid prejudices and live life King Size, don’t count the days, but count the moments of joy. Be happy and make others happy.

A Test Of Patience

Life has been so puzzling for me.I have really seen its enigmatic form.Its not that i dont have reason for calling life so.I do have reasons for calling life so.I have reasons and questions which each and every person on this planet has.But one thing makes me apart from all others is that i cant reveal those doubts...those questions.Yeah,I have reasons for that too(for not telling others).Uptill now you must be thinking that what this girl is upto??You must be sympathetic towards me...hopefully...must be Thinking this girl's THINKING too much...she doesnt trust anyone.And again i have reasons for that.

A very strong reason...A person who has always been backstabbed,will do what??Confused again...right.Yeah,its true...100 percent truth and with all the swearings and promises.Backstabbing has been the issue of my life,but it has given me chance to experience the taste of distrust and hatred.Yeah,every time i shed off my past experiences and start getting ahead,this happens.Backstabbing...i dont know why mother nature could make me a little bit stronger,i really need to be strong,Coz i strongly feel that i dont deserve
all this...at least one should get a chance.At least once,I can trust
a person.For once...I don know if i would ever give myself a chance again...i really have to think on that.

People live their life in different ways,i live my life on my own terms.I have never intentionally hurt somebone,never felt jealous
of anyone for being good...but i think thats a crime; being good to anyone is being foolish...yeah dont you think so...i know its true.But what to do??Maybe being the person who i am is enough reason for all this.

But what to do??Maybe being the person who i am is enough reason for all this.You would be thinking this girl needs
counselling MAN!!PLEASE DONT DO THIS !!! dont do this to the counseller,leave him,please dont do this to him.How can you destroy his life...confused...Obviously after talking to me he is surely going to need a counseller himself.He He He.

P.S. If the actual creator of my Blog has reached the end(hopefully)coz i have written pretty boring stuff,then he should be given some prize.He should be given April Fool's Trophy.Yeah i know its not 1st April but its never late then never.

My first one

hi all

have started the Blog thing...wat to write...he he he

kya karoon kya likhoon next time it will be better...

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this is just testing