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Tuesday, May 17, 2005

Invoke Your Thoughts

Well, sometime back I was thinking hard whether to jot down my thoughts on paper (rather on net) or not , finally I am writing coz I have to. This is about one of the serious prejudices people have about a person, you must be guessing hard, but it’s quite easy to guess…BEING LOOSE CHARACTER. What does this really mean?? Generally it has a negative commotion around it, isn’t it? We say “Good Lord, that person is Loose Character…”and the next few lines goes like this “Oh! He/she might be having affairs, going around with someone and…blah blah.

Every time I hear something like this a thought comes in my mind, does having a love interest in your life implies that, the person is Loose Character. Well, what I really think is, having a love interest in your life, is like being honest to yourself…being honest to your feelings and emotions. Feeling attracted to someone is all Science, our dearest Biology and Chemistry plays a vital role and all thanks to hormones in our body. See it’s as simple as that .If you give it a thought, you will see it’s a very natural phenomenon.

But I feel sorry for some people who are bound by what they are taught. They don’t even want to understand the simple fact that character is something else (my dear friends its my opinion). What I feel and think (really I can think!!) that Character is like having conscience, knowing what is good and bad. If the person feels bad after doing something bad (hey every person commit mistakes), then that is ‘having’ Character. Exploiting someone, making someone’s life hell is Loose Character. Facing difficulties with courage is ‘having’ Character. Blaming others is Loose Character and being difficult for others is Loose Character. These are few of the things, which I think should be taken into consideration before deciding about someone’s Character. People should take care of other’s feelings which can be hurt in between…but after all this is my way of thinking, my persona.

Well, concluding this I would like to make it clear that this is what I Think (guys guys really I can think!!), this is my personal opinion. So please avoid prejudices and live life King Size, don’t count the days, but count the moments of joy. Be happy and make others happy.

1 Comments:

  • Nivedeta, thanks for dropping by...lekin ek teraph aap kehti hain Kehna hai but it seems kaafi dino se kuch keha nahi gaya....

    By Blogger Tarun, at 6:16 AM  

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